College Prep

Hello Loves,

I hope everyone is doing famously on this lovely day. So...I've got some good stuff to update you on :)

A few weeks ago the other HB intern (Kim) and I were dreaming out loud. We really want to make sure our time at TLP is as beneficial as possible for the kids. We came up with the idea that the staff dubbed as the "College Prep" program. For right now it is specifically for the youth living at TLP. The idea is that we will help the kids walk thru the process of getting in to college. I know from my own experience it can be pretty overwhelming. You have to figure out what you want to do, where you want to go, how to pay for it, where to live, how to avoid the freshman 15, seriously, the list goes on and on and on and on... ; ) Many of the kids haven't even considered college as an option because they simply don't know where to start. Hopefully CP (yep, already has its own acronym and everything, that’s how official it is) will help the kids get pointed in the right direction. Everyone is really excited about the program. It’s an area the staff wish they could put more in to, but don't have the time to give it the proper attention. The idea is that Kim and I will be the "college girls" and every Tuesday (me) and Thursday (Kim) we will be available to help the kids with College "stuff".

So, on Tuesday night I got to do my most favorite thing ever, public speaking (yes that was sarcasm). I introduced the idea at TLP. Some of the kids loved the idea, and others reminded me that I had gone 2 minutes over my allotted 5 minute presentation time. Regardless, I had some takers that were really excited about it. All of them really want to go to school they just have some roadblocks to work through, and didn't know where to start. Some of the roadblocks were in regard to financial aid and others are concerned their "records" could make them ineligible. All of these issues are things we can try and work through, for the most part, so I can’t wait to see what happens.

All in all the response was way better than we could have hoped, and it confirmed the need for a program like this. We're all really excited to see what comes from it :)

"Funo" (fun-uno)

So I have to share this story because I'm pretty sure it will be one of my favorites from TLP.
Last Tuesday the staff took the youth to the Mercury game. Well, they took most of them anyway. Six of the guys had to stay back because they were either a) too cool, or b) they were on probation of some sort and not allowed to go. So basically, all the troublemakers were left back at the ranch. Since they were the only ones left on campus they were in Christmas vacation mode (aka, bouncing off the walls like spider monkeys all hopped up on Mt. Dew).

To give them something to do Leslie suggested they pull out some games, and they did. She had hoped they would take the games outside and leave us to get our work done, yeah...not so much the case. They "suckered" me in to playing Uno. I thought we could put a spin on things, so I taught them how to play fun-Uno (btw, if you've never played you should probably do that right after you're done reading this. Its fab....wait for it.......ulous). The boys loved the game. It's like they were 6 year olds again, teasing each other and trying to win. It was hilarious to see these big "thug" guys trying to get each other to giggle during "silent 7". It was awesome. I could see that they were just having a great time, and so was I. We must've played it for a couple of hours because before I knew it the sun was setting and it was time for me to leave. It was soooo much fun!

Ahh, the simple joys in life.

Art & Coffee Nite

Hey all, well I thought I'd catch you up on what has been going on at HB. I'm a little behind, so again, I'm sorry about that, but I promise I'll bring you up to speed! Ok, so last Friday night HB hosted "Off the Beaten Path, Art & Coffee Nite". We basically turned the day center into a little coffee shop/art gallery. The youth were able to showcase their art. It was a great turnout, lots of the youth showed up, and other supporters from the community as well. You could tell the youth really enjoyed it and were having a great time.

One of the TLP residents was brave enough to get on the mic and share her story with us. She shared how she had ended up at TLP. So many times I have heard people say that many Americans are only a few paychecks away from being on the streets. That is exactly what happened to this young woman. She wasn't a bad child with no goals and just floating thru life. She just landed in a rough patch and didn't have any family that could help her get back on her feet. Her story was absolutely inspiring. To hear how she has come back from ending up on the streets. She is now in school and working two jobs trying to get back on her feet. Its times like this I am reminded of what a great thing TLP does. I also have to add that this young lady is one of the most outgoing, friendly and happy young women at TLP right now. She always greets you with a smile. I say this because I have had the privilege of working one on one with her for several weeks and have always been amazed at how driven she is. So you can imagine the surprise when she was sharing her story at the art & coffee nite and she told us that her twin sister had recently died. My heart just broke for her. To be dealing with being homeless and having to mourn the loss of her twin sister and still keep a smile on her face takes strength that I cannot imagine. This young woman is truly an inspiration and I am so incredibly excited to see what God has in store for her.

The rest of the night was very entertaining, filled with paintings, drawings, poetry readings, narratives, and even a stand up comedy routine. The night closed out with "Ms. Beats" (as she is well known) singing "I praise you for who you are". It was absolutely beautiful, and a brave if you ask me. Remember, HB is not a Christian organization. She unashamedly shared a brief version of her testimony before she sang her solo. I'm not gonna lie, I totally teared up. It was beautiful. Time and time again these kids are a reminder of what unwavering faith looks like.

Well, I think those are most of the highlights from art & coffee nite. If you're in Phoenix you should really do yourself a favor and come out to the next one. It will be in November, I'll let you know when we've confirmed the date :)

The ever classic Jeremiah 29:11 plug

"For I know the plans I have for you" declares the Lord, "plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you hope and a future".
                                          - Jeremiah 29:11

With my recent realization of how amazingly perfect Gods timing is (I know, I'm a little slow sometimes!) I am feeling prompted to share these words....

It is a given that life does not always go the way we had hoped. There will be times we may even find ourselves questioning God about a season we are going through. As humans we want to be in control. When we cannot control a situation or circumstance we usually don't handle it very well.

There will be a moment when you choose to accept your circumstance. Whether you chose to love it or hate it, you will learn to embrace it and run with it. The Father has a plan for you and a purpose for bringing you through this particular trial. You can own it and fall in love with it and make the absolute best of it. Smiling all the while and learning all that God has planned to teach you through the experience. You can have hope that there is light at the end of the tunnel and when you look back you will see God's beautiful fingerprints all over it.

OR you can be miserable, rejecting the less than ideal reality you've found yourself in. You can kick and scream and pout because your life isn't where you thought it would be according to your plan. You can throw your fist in the air and have an adult tantrum directed towards God, in some sad attempt to get Him to see why your way is a better plan. All the while, completely missing the point. You could potentially miss the purpose for this time of your life, and the blessing He has planned for you during this season.

Either way this is your reality and you are going to go thru it. This season of your life will play out. It is up to you how you will wade through it. Will you trust God and cling to him? Will you rejoice in the blessings he has in store for you knowing that he is preparing you for something great? Will you embrace the uncomfortable and allow yourself to be stretched?

OR will you stick your lower lip out, sit in the corner and pout, and let the opportunity to grow pass you by?

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Week 3

My apologies for not getting this out last week! Please forgive me, I was at the mercy of my dentist (2 root canals, how's that for a good time, ick!).

Anyway, I was only at the Day Center for a few hours last week, (because of my dental dilemma) but I took part in a conversation that I will probably remember for the rest of my life. I was sitting in my office and one of the youth was in line to use the shower. He looked through my window and asked me how I was doing and I did the standard "I'm doing great, how about you?" His answer is what caught me, "I'm doing alright, but I'm really tired, it's hard to get a good night sleep when you're sleeping on rocks". I told him I was sorry and asked if he was able to catch some sleep in the meditation room (this is the "spirituality room" at the Day Center; they let youth catch some extra sleep in there for reasons just like this). He said he wasn't able to, but was hoping he could find a blanket for the night. Not a blanket to cover up with, but to lie on top of the rocks so he could at least get a good nights sleep.

The conversation continued on for a minute and I put him in touch with the right person so he could get a blanket to sleep on. He was over the top grateful for this saying it wasn't a big deal and we didn't need to go out of our way. I was blown away at how polite and how sweet natured this boy was, especially in light of his circumstances! I was also forced to think about his reality, he sleeps outside. Not only does he sleep outside, but he sleeps on top of rocks. Wherever it is that he has found to lay his head down at night is on top of rocks!! No wonder he isn't getting a lot of sleep.

Lets play a little game....imagine a night when you have gotten next to no sleep because you've been super stressed or worried and you wake up every few minutes. This is his (and countless others) reality, every day. Now imagine that you aren't waking up in a safe snuggly bed under your safe snuggly roof. You are outside, and not only are you exhausted, but you're hungry. So you, in your half awake/sleep state have to go find food. You also have some other things on your agenda, like finding a place to take a shower, hopefully a shelter to sleep in, and if it is a really good day you may have time to look for a job....

All too often I have heard negative comments about our homeless neighbors like; "Why don't they just get a job", or "They're just lazy". I think sometimes we forget that essentials (food, taking a shower and getting a good nights sleep) are not easily accessible for someone who has no home. A large part of their day could be spent just trying to find these things, and all after a night of sleeping on rocks.

Week 2

Alright, now I think I'm all up to speed, finally! Okay, today was pretty sweet. I got the keys to my office (well, I share it with the other intern) at DC. I did some work on facebook, and got our twitter account up and running. And yes, I am shamelessly a tweeter now. It's fun, I like it, and that's that :) Rest assured though, I did not spend my entire day online social networking. I did start my day in a meeting going over an upcoming special event, which I'm pretty excited about (details to come). After that I shadowed Rachel on a volunteer orientation. I think I'm pretty comfortable with this process, one more shadow and I'll be ready to lead the way.

Alright, on to part 2 of my day, TLP. I pulled up around 4:24 and by 4:28 was told I would be teaching a life skills class @ 4:30. Did I mention that curriculum for that class was handed to me as they were telling me I was teaching a class? I don't know if you've met me, but teaching is not my thing. Luckily, I didn't even have time worry about that :) By the way, I fully support the idea that there should be a sarcastic font! Anyway, I actually did get lucky and the life skill was "finding an apartment". This subject is definitely something I know very well, so I'd say all in all the class went pretty well.

Alright, so that recaps the highlights of my day. I guess I'd like to close this one out with some thoughts/ideas/revelations/what nots. I think the kids at TLP are slowly starting to warm up to me. There has been a big turnover in the past week. Usually TLP houses 25 people, right now they are down to 18 or so. They've lost 5 people since last week, and will be losing another soon, as he is joining the national guard. I'm told this is normal and that the turnover changes with the seasons. So come next week there will be some new faces at TLP. I'm excited for the newbies and for those who have completed the program and moved on to independent living. If you remember, can you please pray for all of these kids? They become a family since they live, eat, and hang out together. When that family dynamic changes it can be hard on them, as well as the newbies coming in.

I also have to take this time to say that I had a revelation on my way home tonight. I have to preface this by saying that I am someone who tends to feel unsettled more often than not. I'm always working towards this ideal picture of how I think/hope my life will be. I think a lot of us feel that way. Well, today I realized that God has blessed me far beyond anything I could imagine or ever deserve. I was thinking about my life and came to the realization that I am finally right where I have always wanted to be. My life looks exactly like I have always dreamt it would (give or take a few details, haha). Its pretty surreal. I'm not saying this to boast, actually, its the exact opposite. I am humbled by the realization that after years of pursuing something on my own, I still could not attain it. Yet God, in his ever astounding grace, love and mercy, gave it to me when I least expected in, and when I finally stopped pursuing it and started pursuing him.

I'm not sure if this makes any sense. And I'm not sure if I'm even doing justice to this revelation. What I am sure of is that this revelation will change my life. I can promise you that :)

Week 1

Sooo...my first day went pretty well. I showed up at the Day Center (DC from here on out) and Rachel (my boss) introduced me to everyone. On Tuesdays the Phoenix Children's Hospital runs a free clinic upstairs, so I met a LOT of PCH staff as well. I got a chance to sit down with Rachel and we went over what types of responsibilities I'll have, and I'm not gonna lie, I was pleasantly surprised. I thought for sure the title of intern would automatically grant me the luxury of starbucks runs, making copies, filing, answering phones, and all that super exciting stuff. The reality is that I'll be helping out with a ton of stuff, that I'll actually like! woo hoo!! I'll get to help with special events, volunteer recruitment, and lots of other stuff that I'm actually interested in. My personal favorite though...updating/maintaining facebook and twitter for HB. Um, you want me to play on facebook and tweet as part of my job? Um...yes please :). Obviously, that's not what I'll spend my entire day doing....I'm just saying :)

Alright, so part two of my day, we headed on over to TLP (DC & TLP are about 3 miles from each other). I get there and the staff wasn't expecting me. Apparently their boss went on vacation and forgot to let them know about the two interns that would be starting this week...oopsies! Needless to say they didn't really have a lot for me to do....but don't you worry, they provided me with entertainment..... One of the girls came in and had found a bag of pills that belonged to one of her roommates (the rooms are dorm style, 4 bedroom areas and a common area). Well, obviously this is cause for concern since drugs/alcohol aren't exactly on the list of "approved" items you can have in your room. So this sparked a full on room inspection, causing all the residents to freak out. All in all, it was quite entertaining, and I must report that the search did no disappoint. "Contraband" was found in one of the rooms. None of it worth expelling someone from TLP, but enough to embarrass the resident, and teach them to follow the rules :)

After all the excitement it was time for me to go home, and I was good and ready! The day went fabulously, but I hadn't been this tired in a looong time.

The Details

So, I failed to start this last week (did I mention I'm working on my procrastinating?) so I'll catch you up to speed. I am interning with an organization that serves homeless youth, ages 18-21. The organization "HB" has a day center and a shelter (named the transitional living program, which will call TLP from here on out). During my internship I'll be spending half my time at the Day Center, helping the volunteer/development coordinator. The other half of my time will be spent at TLP where I'll have more interaction with the youth. I'm not gonna lie, I was very nervous about it all, but excited at the same time!

Internship!!

So, I've had some requests for a blog that tracks my internship experience.....ask and you shall receive ;) This blog was originally a requirement for a class....but that's not very exciting...so, on to the next!

Committment Statemen

If I were to become a volunteer manager I will make sure I have a strong recruitment process including a background check for those that will be volunteering on a consistent basis. I will make sure that I have a great training program as well as ongoing training available. I will make sure that I have a recognition program in place that will motivate every type of volunteer that works for me. I will also do follow up with all of my volunteers to make sure that I am always on top of any areas that are not working as well as areas that are working. I will always remember the value of a volunteer and treat them as the asset they are.

Interview with Kisha Bumpers @ the Arkansas Food Bank

Every summer since 2001 the youth group at CrossRoads Nazarene Church in Chandler, AZ has gone to Little Rock and stayed at Friendly Chapel Church. While the students are there they help run a vacation bible school and a basketball camp for the children in the neighborhood. These children are categorized as “at risk”. During the week students and leaders are also a part of many different work projects around the neighborhood as well as helping out with the local food bank. Last year I had the privilege of going for the first time, as a leader. This experience changed my life and it is when I realized how much I enjoy helping others. So much so, that I had to go back, and did June 6th-June 10th.

While I was there I was able to return to the Arkansas Food Bank. The Arkansas Food Bank’s mission is “Working to eliminate hunger in Arkansas”. Working at the food bank is what solidified my decision to major in nonprofit administration. So it was a privilege for me to interview their Volunteer Coordinator, Kisha Bumpers. Kisha has worked for the Arkansas Food Bank for 3 years. Kisha is not only the Volunteer Coordinator.

Our group of teens is the common demographic of volunteers they get. Kisha says it tends to be high school and college aged volunteers that they get a lot of. She also says they get a high volume of volunteers during the summer and around the holidays. On average there are about 600 volunteers that help out a year. Of these 600, 60-75 volunteer on a regular basis (monthly). They also have 12 volunteers that give of their time on a weekly basis. The hours they put in are equivalent to one full time employee.

I asked Kisha what her biggest frustration is with being a volunteer coordinator; her answer was kind of funny to me. She said that her biggest pet peeve is when groups bring more volunteers then they originally agreed to. She likes to be prepared and have jobs for her volunteers. When groups come with too many people it catches her off guard. She says there is plenty of work to be done, but she likes to be prepared, rather than just put people on a task because she needs to occupy their time.

It was very beneficial to hear the real struggles and triumphs of the volunteer world first hand. I felt especially grateful to be able to interview someone who, without realizing it, had a profound impact on my life. I think that is something very important to remember when it comes to volunteer management. As a volunteer manager you have the ability make a volunteers experience either great or so-so. It is important to take that responsibility seriously and make sure that everyone that walks through the doors has the best experience possible!

Ideal Volunteer Position

Position Title: Assistant to the Special Events Coordinator

Purpose: To assist the Special Events Coordinator with planning, preparation and implementation of all special events..

Suggested Activities: Assisting with planning all details to the event, generating donor interest, recruiting volunteers and marketing the event.

Dates Available: Year round, as needed

Application/Interview: Yes/Yes

Time Commitment: 4 hours of orientation + 5-10 hours per week (surrounding an event). Due to the nature of special events these hours can be very flexible.

Location: Organization headquarters (75%), potential/confirmed donor meetings (10%), event preparation/venue (15%)

Training/Experience Required: Must have event planning experience. Ideal candidate is detail oriented and very self motivated. This organization would prefer applicants with volunteer recruitment and event marketing experience.

Benefits: Hours are flexible each week. Will reimburse for mileage.

Welcome

Thank you so much for taking the time to read my blog. This is my first experience blogging, so bear with me. I guess I can give you a little background on myself to start off. I am in my final semesters here @ ASU. I will graduate in December with a Bachelor of Interdisciplinary Studies in Nonprofit Administration and Sociology.....if all goes well! As well as being a student I work full time for a faith based nonprofit. Part of my current position requires me to coordinate volunteer for several different ongoing areas and some special events. I am so excited to learn more about volunteer management and to be able to apply that knowledge to my current work environment. Well, that's it for now. I look forward to getting to know all of you. Thanks!